I was told when I was about 13 that I could never have kids so imagine my surprise when I took that at-home test and it came out positive. I didn't believe that it could be right so I searched for any doctor that would let me come in and take a test. That one turned out positive too. Wow. I knew what I had to do then. I'd been with the same guy for two years but he already has 3 kids and always said that he did not want anymore. I was so scared to tell him that we were expecting but he was the first person I call. The reaction that I got was " your going to have an abortion. " I responded by telling him that I was going to have this baby. I'm 26 years old and when I told my mother she said that I should give it up for adoption. I told her the same thing " I'm going to have this baby." Things didn't get much better from there. My baby's father threatened me twice saying that I was either going to have an abortion, he was going to give me somthing to make me abort the baby or he was going to kill me. I stuck to my guns about having the baby and steered clear of his father. The pregnancy was really hard knowing that I was doing this alone and then I got preeclampsia which made things even worse. They took me off of work a month before I had my baby which made my bank account disappear trying to still pay rent and other bills with no help. My son is almost 3 months old and his father has only seen him once. I am getting no help from him and am only able to work part-time. But I'm happy I didn't listen to what everyone wanted me to do. I know that one day things will be better and for right now we're getting by.