I AM A 34 YEAR OLD FEMALE WITH 3 GROWING , HEALTHY, RESPECTFUL BOYS. I HAVE RAN INTO LIFES STRUGGLES MANY OF TIMES GETTING INTO RELATIONSHIPS THAT I THOUGHT WERE BETTER FOR MY BOYS AND TO KEEP THEM IN THE FRAME OF MIND THAT WAS TAUGHT TO THEM. HELPING TO SET FOUNDATION AT A PLACE WHERE YOU FIND YOURSELF NO LONGER THERE. THAT ENDS UP BEING A WASTE OF MONEY AND A WASTE OF TIME. I HAVE BEEN WORKING SINCE THE AGE OF 16 TO HELP MY MOM TO TAKE CARE OF MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS , SO I KNOW IN MY HEART MY LIFE S NOT SUPPOSE TO BE THIS WAY. I STILL FIND MYSELF IN A POWER STRUGGLE. i KNOW ONE DAY IT WILL ALL END , BUT WHEN? I HAVE MET A WONDERFUL MAN WHO RESPECTS ME AND LOVES MY BOYS. HE HAS HIS OWN HOUSE AND IT IS PAID FOR , HE IS 45 YEARS OLD. (AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER TO ME, RESPECT MATTERS) I HAVE JUDGED HIM ON MY PAST EXPERIENCES AND I KNOW I SHOULDN'T DO THAT. I WANT TO DO MY OWN THING AND IF IT IS MEANT THEN IF ITS GODS WILL THEN IT WILL BE. I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY CAN DO FOR ME AND MY BOYS I WANT IT TO MEAN SOMETHING.I HAVE WORKED EXTRA SHIFTS AND STILL CAN'T SEEM TO GET WHERE I NEED TO BE. AND ALL THE WHILE THE GOVERNMENT SLACKS OFF HELPING US MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY AIMS TOWARD SINGLE FEMALES THAT DON'T WANT TO WORK AND MAKING MORE BABIES. WHY IS THIS SO? THEY GET MEDICAL BENEFITS THAT THEY DON'T USE WHILE SPREADING DISEASES AND WE AS WORKING WOMEN HAVE TO STRUGGLE WITH MEDICAL BILLS WHILE TAKING CARE OF A FAMILY. WHY IS THIS SO? WHEN ANYONE GET THE ANSWER TO THESE QUESTIONS PLEASE LET ME KNOW!